ADOPTION HOW-TO

By Mirra Fine, NYC

You’ve seen the adorable little lab mix on your block, and catch yourself daydreaming while walking past the dog park after work. If you're anything like me, you’ve been thinking about – scratch that – DREAMING about, adopting a dog for a long, long time. And you're finally ready… Or so you think. Word on the block is, it's never been more difficult to adopt a dog in the city. With all the adoption procedures, interviews and application processes, adoption has turned from a joyous family experience, into a shameful nightmare.

Is this just a nasty rumor circulating the tri state area? Or could there be some truth to this tale? The ASPCA says that you can adopt a dog in just “four easy steps”. But is it really that easy? Turns out… it can be. But only if you’re really prepared. All it takes is a lot of thinking, a bit of planning, and a big heart. Time to do your homework.

Step One: Think about it.

Very often, people fall in love with the idea of owning a dog, but don’t stop to think about what caring for another life really means. Its true, dogs are wonderful companion animals. They bring a lot to your life, but they don’t come without a bit of sacrifice. Prepare yourself for a change in your daily routine and your lifestyle. There are a few things you’ll need to mull over before taking the next step:

1. Time to commit.
I hate seeing dogs who’ve been given up by their owners. The same owners who promised to provide care and love, realized that it was just too much work. To a little guy whose bonded deeply with his/her surroundings and adopted family, the change is heartbreaking. So, if you're thinking of adopting, its important to understand that this is a long term commitment.

Dogs can live from 10-15 years, meaning that your little guy is going to be with you for a long, long time. Muffy will be there through the good times and the bad. From the bad hair days to the promotions – and through it all, they will look to you for daily walks, food and overall love. It will be a wonderful addition to your family and life. So make sure you that you're in it for the long haul.

2. Quality Time.
We can all be needy at times. And dogs are no exception. In fact, they thrive on attention and exercise. An adult dog can typically be left for up to six hours without going outside, but much more isn’t ideal. Make sure you have the energy and time to efficiently care for the little guy. After all, you wouldn’t like to be cooped up in a tiny New York City apt all day… so why would your dog?

3. Love doesn’t cost a thing. But a dog does.
Adopting a pet goes far beyond the adoption fee. There is the cost of food, toys, medical bills (spay/neuter, vet costs, ID chips), proper identification and supplies. Before you adopt, make sure you’ve got it in your budget. The cost of owning a dog can range from $800-$1600 per year. For a complete cost chart, check out: CLICK HERE

4. Home sweet home.
Ahhh, the New York City life wouldn’t be complete without shifty landlords, crazy neighbors and filthy pests. Beyond that, each apt has its own restrictions: moving issues, allergies, small children etc. Before you go through all the trouble of applying for an adoption, make sure that a dog is allowed and would fit in your household. That means, talk to the shelter staff for recommendations.

5. Even Lassie used to pee on the rug.
Keep in mind: You're not the only one who will be adjusting to a new situation. It will take time for Fido, as well. So be prepared for some chewing of furniture, a little peeing in the house, and a bout of nipping and whining. Dogs, just like children, will learn through their environment, but they need a patient and understanding teacher: You. So be realistic with your expectations of Todo when you bring him home. Its gonna take some work… but it will be all worth it.

6. Children + Dog = Big happy family
If you're adding a pet to a family with children, please take the time to think about how this will change your life. There will be lots of new chores, and a new schedule. And no matter how many times little Suzie promises she will care for the dog, its best to be prepared to do the work yourself. So think about it…Does everyone have time to properly care for a pet?Very often, small children get wrapped up in the moment without realizing the work that goes into it. Remember, puppies don’t stay small forever.

Another thing to consider is the type of dog that will be best for your growing family. Some breeds are naturally more aggressive or high-strung than others. Breeds such as Labradors and golden retrievers are known to be more even-tempered and will do well with children. Most toy-sized and touch-and-noise-sensitive dogs are not suitable for young children.

Step Two: Adoption Centers: What they’re looking for.

You've done all the research and planning and you're ready to get to the shelter and adopt the new member of your family. Ok, on to the next step. What are The adoption centers, shelters and pounds going to check for? Remember, they are just looking for a caring and safe environment for each dog. The application procedure can be a daunting task. However, once again, preparedness can make the process go smoothly.

It all starts out with the application

For reference, check out: http://www.aspca.org/site/DocServer/adoption_dog.pdf?docID=504

1. Mental Health
Typically, some shelters will just ask if you are mentally stable. They want to make sure that their puppy is going into the best situation possible. Stay calm, and be honest. The shelter staff is there to help you find the best fit.

2. Living situation
Its important that a dog is adopted into a permanent home. Avoiding housing limitations in the first step. Therefore, the shelter will check into the following:

a. Proof that dogs are allowed in your apartment
b. Confirmation from building Supervisor (you will be asked to provide his/her contact information)
c. Already got a dog at home? The shelter will usually ask that you bring him in so that they can see how he interacts with the new guy. And a call to your vet will most likely be made.
d. In home visit. Sometimes, shelters will chose to visit your home to make sure that you're providing a healthy stable environment for a dog. This can either happen once the adoption is complete, (3-6 months down the road), or while the adoption application is still pending.

3. Children
Some dogs are better with older children. Shelters are sometimes wary as very young children may unwittingly mishandle or hurt puppies who are particularly vulnerable to being dropped, or picked up inappropriately. Discuss your family situation with a Shelter ahead of time to make sure you pick the dog that is perfect for you. Many shelters will ask that you bring the entire family in to meet the pet.

4. Confirmation of Income
As mentioned previously, animal care is an expense. Make sure you can afford a pet before you pick one out. Shelters will simply remind you of the cost of a pet…most won't actually check your income.

5. At least 2-3 References
This is essential in assuring the shelter that you will be a caring, loving and responsible parent. Typically, non-family members are preferable. Acceptable references are roommates, boss/coworkers, friends/colleagues. Provide the name of someone who knows how much you love animals and can attest to what a great adoptive parent you would be.

Step Three: Choosing the perfect pet.

So you’ve been approved to adopt! Now it’s the fun part… picking out your new dog. Most shelters encourage you to take the time you need to make sure you make the right match. Do your research and ASK QUESTIONS. That’s what the shelter staff is there for. Its very important to make sure you're comfortable with your decision.

Most shelters provide an initial exam after adoption, and will offer complimentary treatment for any medical problems found at that time. Sometimes, the treatment is only applied at the adoption center. So, for those of you adopting out of the city, be prepared to come back.

Step Four: Go get em!

There’s a little dog (or big dog!) just waiting for a wonderful owner to come and pick him up. Whether they’re at a shelter, or at the pound .... each are hoping for a loving individual to come and adopt them. So, get your ducks lined in a row.. and go get em. Your life will never be the same… and it is so worth it.

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Mirra Fine, is a dog walker and owner of Manhattan-based dog walking company, the New York Pooch Patrol (www.nypoochpatrol.com). She currently writes about her daily "dog happenings" on her blog, http://poochpatrol.blogspot.com. For information on dog walking services or writing questions, contact Mirra at ask@housepetmagazine.com